What Are You Creating?

Everything in life is a choice. Some choices are more difficult to make than others. Yet we always have a choice about what to do, to say--or what not to do, to say. Sometimes it appears that we have no choice because we see one way of being as good and another as bad.
What if we lived free of judgment? What if everyone and everything simply is as it is and we accept that fact. We cannot change what happened nor can we change another person--even though we think they would be a better person, somehow, if they did what we think they "should" or "could" do.
The bottomline is we do not have answers for others. Actually we do not really have our own answers. If we did we would have no reason to live in this big school, Earth.
If someone behaves in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable in anyway realize you choose to see those behaviors in that person (tuning out all behaviors contary to that one) and you place the value of not being good on them! You then tell yourself you are uncomfortable. If someone makes you feel uncomfortable simply choose to see them differently or choose to stop seeing them. You control your life--no one else has any power for you. You may give away your power to others and think they have power over you. Notice the word "think." Your life is, in every moment what you think your life is.